My girlfriend is very beautiful, but I still broke up with her because she likes to "dig for gold"

(Dan Tri) - Discovering that my girlfriend shows signs of being an expert in the field of "gold digging", I am scared and want to end the relationship.

Girls these days are very smart, but please, don’t be so pragmatic that you underestimate our hearts. Men love for real, but that doesn’t mean they are so infatuated that they lose their sense of sight. Because when they find someone to truly love, it means men want to find the most proper and standard wife.

I will tell you my story. It was not easy for me to meet and fall in love with Nga. Because Nga is a beautiful girl, with a graceful figure and a sweet voice that is very catchy to the listener.

"Catching Nga's eye" was my luck, so I was quite proud, devoted myself to taking care of her, never wanting to let her lose to her peers.

But over time, Nga's demands increased, making me unable to stop thinking. In our conversations, she often mentioned money and compared it to this person or that person, praising her friends for being bought this or that by her lover... Basically, I loved Nga very much, pampered her unconditionally, and was ready to meet all her requests without calculation or comparison.

I have a headache when my girlfriend is too demanding (Illustration: Sina).

The only thing is, I noticed that this demand has no end in sight. At first it was just lipstick, expensive cream, shoes, clothes... Then it was phones, laptops, motorbikes and then gradually it moved to skin whitening, lip injections, nose jobs...

Instead of texting to ask about me or show concern, the messages I received from Nga usually contained pictures of shopping, followed by: "I'm out of money, can you transfer me 3 million VND?", "I like this bag but it's 7 million VND", "I want to get a nose job, my nose is so ugly", "Brother, help me, transfer money to this lady, I got lip injections but she wants to pay in advance and won't let me borrow money"...

I told her, if it's about necessities and daily necessities, I'll take care of everything for her. But if she uses money to abuse cosmetic surgery, I don't want it.

So she got angry, cried, said I was stingy, that I was making excuses because I was stingy with money. I chose my words carefully and said that she was very pretty, her face was very eye-catching, don't change anything, because she might not be more beautiful than before.

Yet Nga got angry, furious with me, and arrogantly labeled me as a patriarchal, ignorant man. That she, like countless other girls, had an instinctive need to beautify herself, not just for herself but also for the man beside her.

If I don't agree to make you more beautiful, and don't have the ability to cover the costs, then just say so you can find someone else who can take care of you.

Hearing that, I angrily left. In the middle of the night, Nga texted me, sweetly apologizing for her harsh words. But at this moment, I was the one who wanted to break up. Although I still had feelings, after the incident, I was like a person who woke up to realize that we were not suitable to continue the long journey together.

I can give in and pamper Nga for love, but I cannot cater to all her demands. She is too pragmatic, values ​​beauty too much and seeks to find a man with enough economic conditions, with the financial ability to protect and pay for all her expenses.

I am not rich enough to be a "gold mine" for you to take advantage of. I have to say goodbye, I do not want to continue clinging to this relationship any longer.

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