'If you break up without asking for gifts' then going to your ex's wedding is fun!

Whether or not you should attend your ex's wedding depends on your point of view - Illustration: CONG TRIEU

In fact, many people still choose to attend their ex's wedding and give their ex their blessings, which is normal.

Attending a wedding, congratulating my ex on getting married

Recently, I heard my friends gossiping about Ngan Hanh attending Tung's wedding in the same office. The thing is, Tung used to be Hanh's lover. After a while of breaking up, Tung got a new lover.

About two years later, Tung gave Hanh a wedding invitation. Hanh received the invitation, feeling a little confused about whether she should attend her ex-lover's wedding or not. She consulted her friends and finally she received two opinions: go and don't go.

Hanh decided to attend Tung's wedding like she attended the weddings of many other colleagues. "We broke up because we had different opinions. After that, we considered each other as friends and colleagues.

I went to the wedding not because I was curious to see who my ex-lover's wife was, but I just thought I was there to congratulate my colleague and, after all, they were ex-lovers who shared the ups and downs together," Hanh expressed.

Many people think that if you break up "without asking for gifts" and still maintain a relationship as friends or colleagues, attending your ex's wedding is normal and not embarrassing.

"Going to my ex's wedding is not to prove that I'm fine without him. Because we still see each other at work every day. Choosing not to continue together means that the two of you go your separate ways, have your own lives. So what's there to worry about when attending your ex's wedding?

I think if the breakup hurts each other too much, no one would invite them to the wedding, let alone attend each other's wedding," Hanh stated her opinion.

Come to bless your ex-lover getting married

Loved each other since college days, graduated and worked for about a year, Mr. Hung and Ms. Phuong ended their long love affair of about four years. Although both of them sometimes looked back to hope to mend their romantic love from college days, but both felt it was forced, so they accepted to go their separate ways.

However, they were no longer a couple, they were still in the same group of friends from their college days, so they still met up with the group to have coffee or go on trips together. Then Hung and Phuong both had new lovers.

Hung had also broken up with his second love, so when he received Phuong's wedding invitation, he didn't hesitate at all, but went with his friends to his ex-lover's wedding normally and happily. Hung shared that he went to the wedding to wish his ex-lover well.

"People say that breaking up is the end, don't let the old love come back without being invited and cause trouble for both of you. But I think there are many reasons for breaking up. If you still maintain a good friendship, then just go to the wedding to congratulate each other, there's nothing to worry or calculate about," Hung said.

We used to see each other as a part of our lives, but when we broke up, in the end, the person who walked with us to the next page of our lives was someone else. If you are invited to your ex's wedding, you should still go to congratulate him/her.

Source: https://tuoitre.vn/chia-tay-khong-doi-qua-thi-di-dam-cuoi-nguoi-yeu-cua-vui-ma-20240520165900805.htm