My sister-in-law criticized my second grader for being so skinny that he was worse than a 5 year old. A few days later, it was her sister-in-law's turn to cry when she received bad news about her daughter.

I told my sister-in-law that children are innocent, don’t make fun of them. Now that something has happened to her child, I don’t know what to say…

My husband's family has 4 siblings. My husband is the third child, above him are 1 older brother and 1 older sister, and below him is the youngest daughter. Although I am the second daughter-in-law, I moved to my husband's house first, while my eldest sister-in-law got married later.

My first son is 1.5 years older than my sister-in-law's daughter. While the boy is gentle and patient, his cousin is very fierce. Not to say anything bad, but everyone says that my sister-in-law and her mother are as fierce as each other. Even though she is so small, she can bully adults.

Unfortunately, my sister-in-law did not bother to correct her son. She showed disdain when anyone gave her advice, and even argued back when my husband's parents spoke to her. She argued bluntly that "parents give birth to children, God gives them their personalities", so she should just leave her son alone and let him grow up on his own.

The brother-in-law was so weak that he didn't dare scold his wife and children. Before, everyone thought he was a spinster, over 30 years old and still single, so his parents-in-law said that he could marry any woman, as long as he got married and had a wife and children, that was good enough. Who would have thought that he would bring home a wife as fierce as a tiger, and even give birth to a tiger cub!

Living together is inevitable, my husband and I are not in a position to move out yet so we have to tell our son to stay away from his cousin. He is also very afraid of his cousin, he said every time Ms. Bong cries and throws a tantrum, he just wants to run away.

Many times, Bong would cause trouble and then blame my son. Even after being scolded by adults, the boy did not dare to talk back. He just sat in a corner feeling resentful. When I found out, I immediately talked to my sister-in-law to discipline Bong. However, she said, "There is no smoke without fire", implying that my son was also mischievous. I was tired of arguing because I knew my sister-in-law's stubbornness was beyond help.

Lately, no one has touched my sister-in-law, but she has started to show signs of wanting to cause trouble. Occasionally, she teases me with a few sentences, like, "Sister-in-law, you're dressing nicely these days, your business must be doing well, right?", "Can you lend me some money for Tet?" Then she asks how much money my husband and I saved at the end of the year, asks what lipstick I'm wearing that looks so good, and then asks for the lipstick and perfume I use because she likes them (?!?)

Having nothing to say, my sister-in-law turned to look at my son. She shook her head and criticized him for being too skinny. I told her he was only about 20kg, and she immediately said, "It's my fault." She said I didn't love my son, so I let him be "skinny as a stick", didn't know how to raise him, didn't feed him enough, ate only cheap, unnutritious junk food, was in 2nd grade but didn't weigh as much as a 5-year-old like her son, etc.

In conclusion, my sister-in-law nagged a lot. I wanted to respect her but I couldn’t because she was so rude. She was so unreasonable that she cursed my child, saying that being so skinny would definitely cause illness. I was so angry that I didn’t want to listen anymore and reminded her to be careful with her mouth because talking nonsense could easily bring disaster. Why did she suddenly start bad-mouthing an innocent, naive child? There were many reasons for being skinny, not because I neglected to take care of my child.

The child is still healthy and smart. The doctor said everything is fine, there is no serious illness, and he still eats well and healthily. I am his mother and I am not worried. I don't understand why my sister-in-law has to say such harsh words to the child?

A few days later, when I picked up my child from school and came home, I suddenly saw my mother-in-law patting my sister-in-law on the shoulder to comfort her crying in the kitchen. I asked and found out that recently my sister-in-law discovered that Bong was constantly thirsty and urinating a lot, so she quickly took her daughter to the doctor. The doctor said that she had severe diabetes, the cause of which was an unhealthy diet and lifestyle, which caused her to get sick so early.

Just yesterday she praised her child for being chubby and criticized my child for being skinny, today she regretted crying for letting Bong eat too much. Especially Bong's love for sweets, everyone around advised her not to let her eat too much but her sister-in-law did not listen. Now the consequences have come, the child has to live with that disease for the rest of her life.

However, the sister-in-law still did not admit her mistake in raising her child, she turned around and blamed the grandparents for spoiling her too much (?!?). My mother-in-law was stunned after hearing what her daughter-in-law said. I was also at a loss as to what to do to make my sister-in-law come to her senses. How could someone be so stubborn!

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