My wife has been a housewife for a long time, making me no longer want to do "that"

Seeing my wife always busy taking care of the children, her clothes disheveled, sometimes even smelly made me not want to do "that" anymore. I tried to push that feeling out of my mind but couldn't. Many times I was startled by the changes in myself.

I have been married for over 6 years and have 3 children. My wife kept getting pregnant and giving birth, so we agreed that only I would go to work, while she would stay home and take care of the family. At first, my wife was not very happy. She said that if she stayed home all the time, she would be reluctant to go to work and was worried that she would become a real maid.

I don't know why I feel bored with my wife even though I still love her (illustrative photo)

She once applied for a job and went to work after giving birth to her first child for more than a year, but after only a few months, my wife voluntarily quit because she was not comfortable leaving the child at home with a maid. In addition, the money she earned from work was not enough to hire a maid, and the company also had a lot of work, so my wife was always under pressure and always felt stressed.

At that time, combined with the fact that she was pregnant with our second child, my wife stopped working and stayed at home. Since then, she has never mentioned going back to work. I work alone, so I have a lot of financial pressure to take care of the whole family, but seeing my wife working hard at home, I try to help her with housework whenever I have free time.

But recently, I don't know why I feel bored with my wife even though I still love her hard work. Seeing my wife always busy taking care of the children, her clothes are messy, sometimes even smelly makes me lose inspiration. I have tried many times to push that feeling out of my mind but I can't because feelings are something that cannot be forced. Many times I am startled by the changes in myself. I don't have anyone else but if this continues, I'm afraid that one day my family will fall apart.

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