One mistake and you'll go a thousand miles astray.

If at first it was just Ms. Ha Lan's personal frustrations with her husband and in-laws, now it has become a "hot" topic for women to compete to "expose" their husbands and in-laws.

According to research by Kate Rosenblatt, Director of the online therapy company Talkspace (USA), when seeing someone "like" their post on social networks, the user's brain will automatically produce dopamine (happy hormone), which is good for the mind and body.

This feeling has motivated users to increase the time they spend on social networks. And perhaps, this is also the reason why people with many thoughts want to share more on social networks.

And from here, many situations and funny stories arise, affecting family happiness.

Ms. Ha Lan said that once, she and her husband had an argument about how to behave between her husband's and her husband's families. Basically, he didn't make any money but always wanted to control his wife's finances. Every month, she "contributed" 5 million VND to her grandmother for food, but her husband said it was too little and wanted her to give her 6 million VND.

Meanwhile, every month, when she gave her mother 1 million, he seemed upset, saying he didn't need it, and would give her grandmother some money on holidays... In addition to many other frustrations in her husband's family that she didn't know who to share with, Ms. Ha Lan wrote a post expressing her feelings in a "closed group" of married women on Facebook.

Ms. Ha Lan's post attracted a lot of interactions. In the comments, some people advised her to calm down, wait a few days, when both husband and wife have calmed down, then sit down and talk to each other, then both can listen to each other, the conflict will be resolved.

Some people said that contributing 5 million to her grandmother was not enough, others said it was too much. Some people advised her to be straightforward, not only to her husband but also to her mother-in-law and her husband's family about her life philosophy and the grievances she had endured for so long.

There are also unconstructive comments like "If you break something, you can be saved. What era is this that you have to be so patient?"; "It's better not to have a husband than to live with a husband who doesn't make money and is also patriarchal"...

Ms. Ha Lan's story "ignited" other sisters to compete to tell their family stories.

On the positive side, when people are able to express their inner frustrations, they will feel relieved because they have been released. In Ms. Ha Lan’s case, when she received the sharing and interaction from the group members, she was comforted and encouraged a lot.

But unfortunately, the story did not end there. As for Ms. Lan, perhaps unintentionally or not paying attention, she did not know that in that "closed group" of thousands of members, there were also people who knew members of her husband's family in real life.

Although the rule of the "closed group" is not to share the post publicly, an "unknown acquaintance" of Ms. Lan in the closed group took a screenshot of this post and "shared" it with her sister-in-law. And the story continues without end.

If at first it was just Ms. Ha Lan's personal frustrations with her husband and his family, now it has become a "hot" topic for women to compete to "expose" their husbands and their families. In real life, Ms. Ha Lan is facing harsh reactions from her husband and his family.

And I'm afraid that emotional cracks when pushed to that climax cannot be easily healed overnight...

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/buon-chuyen-nha-len-mang-sai-mot-ly-di-ngan-dam-172241031185809413.htm