"Without Me, Britney Is Dead": Maybe Britney's Dad Was... Right?

In 2022, a year after Britney Spears regained control of her personal life, her father - who had been her guardian for 13 years - spoke out about his feelings.

At that time, Mr. Jamie was still seen by the media and the public as a "villain" in Britney's life story. He was suspected of profiting from his daughter's assets and of trying to control Britney's life in a harsh and cruel way.

These were pointed out by Britney during the process of asking the court to remove the guardianship. Britney even threatened to take her biological father to court, to make him pay for his cruel actions during the process of being her guardian.

But sooner or later, Mr. Jamie Spears (71 years old) always affirmed that the 13 years of applying the guardianship regime for Britney was to help her... survive. He believes that Britney really had a period when she needed the guardianship regime, so that her life could be controlled and stabilized and returned to a state of balance.

Jamie also sees himself as the one who saved his daughter's life from collapse and misery. However, during the process of Britney asking to remove the conservatorship that applied to her life, Jamie became the target of attacks from millions of Britney's fans.

Before and after, Mr. Jamie Spears always affirmed that the 13 years of applying conservatorship to Britney was to help her... survive (Photo: Page Six).

After Britney regained control of her life, Mr. Jamie once said: "The guardianship was the solution that kept my daughter alive until today. The guardianship was a necessary intervention to rescue Britney from the darkest period. It was also the guardianship that helped maintain a stable relationship between Britney and her two sons for a long time.

There have been some very difficult times, and I don't want to paint a rosy picture of our family. But I can say that the conservatorship was the right decision, and the price I paid for that decision was that my relationship with Britney and I deteriorated after I became the one directly in control of Britney's life.

Many people criticize me, I had to go through a very dark period, but in the end, I was the one who loved my daughter with all my heart and mind. What would Britney have been like without the guardianship system during her darkest years and severe imbalance?

Without me, Britney would probably be dead. The guardianship is to protect Britney and her children. Without the guardianship, Britney would never be able to regain balance in her life and would never be allowed by the court to share custody of the children with her ex-husband."

At the present time, when Britney's independent and self-determined life has revealed many unstable problems, the way the media and the public perceive Jamie Spears has also changed. Let's take a look back at the problems that have occurred in Britney's life over the past two years, since she regained control of her personal life:

Britney was disowned by her two sons: The two sons decided to move far away so they wouldn't see their mother again.

Perhaps it was the guardianship that helped maintain a stable relationship between Britney and her two sons for a long time (Photo: Page Six).

Britney went through a severe crisis when she divorced her ex-husband Kevin Federline. The divorce was finalized in 2007. After that, Britney had many erratic actions and used drugs while raising a young child. In that context, the conservatorship was applied by the court to help Britney's life back under control.

Jamie insists that it was he and Britney's ex-husband, dancer Kevin Federline, who worked hard to bring Britney's two sons back to a sense of security: "It was the two of us who worked together to raise the children.

The guardianship system has helped everything run smoothly and orderly, and all parties have benefited from it. The children are cared for and well looked after. There have been many wonderful memories between Britney and the children during the guardianship period."

Dancer Kevin Federline also revealed in an interview that his two sons with Britney - Sean Preston (17 years old) and Jayden James (16 years old) - decided not to see their mother again after Britney continuously posted nude and semi-nude photos online, since she regained her autonomy.

Kevin said: "I tried to explain to the children that the nude photos of their mother were just a way for their mother to express herself, but explanations could not help erase the negative impressions of the children. After having to see the pictures of their mother, they felt very difficult.

I can't even imagine how I would feel if I was a teenager in high school, all my friends were on social media, and my famous mother was constantly posting pictures like that. The two of you agreed that you wouldn't see your mother again, and you also decided not to attend her wedding."

After her divorce from Kevin Federline, Britney suffered a severe mental breakdown. She lost custody of her children in 2007. Her two sons live with their father, Kevin Federline has custody of them and receives monthly financial support from Britney.

Since 2008, when the conservatorship was imposed on Britney's life, she has been able to share custody of her children with her ex-husband, with regular visitation and time with them. During the time the conservatorship was imposed on Britney's life, photos of Britney with her two sons show a rather pleasant relationship.

Britney Spears has gone through a series of very quickly broken marriages (Photo: Page Six).

However, after the conservatorship ended, things quickly deteriorated. Regarding this, Kevin Federline said: "I saw Britney's father as someone who really cared about the family, he wanted everything to go smoothly, the best possible. When Mr. Jamie was the guardian, everything went smoothly and orderly. I think he saved Britney's life.

I don't have any bad feelings towards Jamie Spears. Everyone makes mistakes, I feel sorry for him, I feel like he's going through a tough time."

In addition, Britney's two sons also expressed their affection for their grandfather, although there were some conflicts between the two sides that caused Mr. Jamie to be banned from contacting his two grandchildren. Currently, the ban has been removed, the two sides have also publicly expressed their affection for each other, but they still have not met again.

In an interview, Britney's son - Jayden James - affirmed that he loves all of his maternal relatives: "My grandfather was like any other father, he let my mother pursue her dream of becoming a music star.

But I think the fact that the guardianship lasted so long made my mother angry. She had to work too much, she should have rest and relaxation. But my grandfather did not deserve to be hated and criticized by the media and the public.

I love my grandfather, he always tried to be a good father. Maybe my mother didn't realize how much he cared for her. I have a good impression of my maternal relatives.

They understand what we are going through and always want the best for us. They are always caring and a good part of our lives, and my grandparents and Uncle Bryan (Britney's brother) have taught us how to cope with things."

Britney's two sons have agreed with each other that they will not see their mother again, and the two teenagers themselves have decided not to attend their mother's wedding (Photo: Page Six).

Recently, Kevin Federline moved his family to Hawaii, partly because they wanted to avoid any contact with Britney, wanting a more comfortable and pleasant family life than life in Hollywood. Before leaving California, Britney's two sons did not see their mother to say goodbye.

When Kevin Federline's family had just moved to Maui, Hawaii, the forest fire disaster occurred, leaving them very shocked. Many people were very concerned about the Federline family's situation, the family's representative lawyer spoke up to share information to reassure the public, that the entire Federline family was safe. Meanwhile, Britney only posted on social networks... sexy dancing clips.

Britney and her young husband divorce: The unstable marriage lasted only... one year

During their more than a year of marriage to Sam Asghari, Britney and her young husband were constantly caught up in rumors of their "bad relationship". There were times when the two appeared outside without wearing wedding rings.

While Sam Asghari began to focus on new plans at work to build an acting career in Hollywood, Britney continued to enjoy holidays without her husband. Accompanying Britney on holidays is always a male escort. It can be her manager or her personal bodyguard.

When appearing with these people, Britney Spears showed joy and excitement, even though her husband did not accompany her on this long vacation. This is where rumors began to arise about Britney and her young husband being unfaithful to each other. This is also said to be the cause of the heated arguments between Britney and her husband, and finally, the two decided to divorce.

Britney continues to enjoy vacations with male partners, while Sam Asghari is trying to build an acting career in Hollywood (Photo: Page Six).

One of the main reasons why Britney was determined to take legal action to remove the conservatorship imposed on her life was because she wanted to marry and have children with Sam Asghari.

According to Britney, the guardianship regime imposed by her father on her life was too harsh and cruel, depriving her of the right to love and live as a mature woman deserved. This information was shared by Britney in court and had a strong impact on the media and the public.

After the conservatorship was lifted, Britney did indeed get pregnant and marry Sam Asghari. But she suffered a miscarriage shortly after announcing the good news to her fans. Her marriage was also plagued with rumors of instability and rifts even though they had only been married for a little over a year. At this point, the marriage had officially broken down.

In the past, Sam Asghari has always been very tactful in answering questions about the rumored rift with Britney. In fact, since marrying Sam, Britney has not appeared with her husband at red carpet events. She is also not often present in Sam Asghari's posts on social networks.

Regarding why his wife does not appear at red carpet events that Sam Asghari attends, the actor once explained: "It would be an honor for me if she attended red carpet events with me, but for her, these events are not fun, but on the contrary, very stressful and tiring.

She has been very familiar with red carpet events since she was little. She is very used to being the center of attention when appearing at events. I respect her privacy and always protect it at all times."

Britney Spears and Sam Asghari when they were still together (Photo: Page Six).

Regarding Britney's frequent posting of nude or semi-nude photos and clips on social media, Sam Asghari initially strongly defended Britney, when she was shunned by her ex-husband and two sons because of these posts.

But after a while, Sam himself had to reconsider the problem, although the way he expressed it was still very... "tactful": "The only person in the world who gets bullied for posting these types of photos is Britney. Personally, I hope she never posts these types of photos. But who am I to have the right to control her?

She is someone who has lived her entire life under the close scrutiny of the media, the public and even her relatives. She has been controlled for most of her life, and now she has finally found freedom."

In fact, during their more than a year of marriage, Sam and Britney rarely appeared together outside. On the rare occasion when the two went out to dinner together, Britney lost control of herself when she saw the guests at the restaurant taking out their phones to take pictures and videos of her. Britney felt uncomfortable and agitated, she screamed and... babbled.

This unpleasant situation caused Sam Asghari to quickly leave the restaurant, leaving Britney alone. Britney sat talking to herself before leaving the restaurant with her bodyguard... In fact, after marrying Sam Asghari, Britney's married life was not very prosperous and fulfilling.

Britney hates her family endlessly: Her son had to "speak up" to advise her

Currently, when Britney is facing her third marriage that ended quickly, luckily for her, she has her biological mother and sister by her side (Photo: Page Six).

After regaining control of her life, Britney continued to make harsh, harsh, hateful criticisms of her family on social media. Her parents and sister were constantly criticized with anger and hatred in her posts.

Regarding this, Britney's son - teenager Jayden James - once said in an interview: "Social media has helped my mother a lot, if she wants to share everything in her personal life online, then I don't hate her for that.

But she should realize that what she is doing is keeping her from loving her family and loved ones. Sometimes I feel like she has to constantly post on social media to get attention. I hope that someday she will stop.

My mother and I have had problems in our relationship for many years, ever since we were teenagers. I hope that at some point, we will be reunited. But I fear that the problems in her life will never stop.

It's easy to live with negative thoughts and constantly blame others, it's easy to let yourself sink into sadness and depression and blame others. Living positively and spreading positive energy is difficult."

Two months ago, Britney agreed to meet and reconcile with her biological mother and sister. However, she still has not reconnected with her biological father. Britney's brother - film producer Bryan Spears - has always actively kept his distance in his relationship with his troubled sister.

Currently, as Britney is facing her third marriage that ended abruptly, luckily for her, she has her biological mother and sister by her side. They have managed to warm up their relationship again and will be by Britney's side as she goes through the latest incident in her life.

According to New York Post/Daily Mail

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