The bitter truth behind the woman who cheated 5 times

GĐXH - The deception happened for the 5th time and he could no longer bear it so he decided to file for divorce.

Mr. Vuong and his wife in Guangzhou (China) have known each other since middle school. They started dating at the age of 15, and got married after finishing school, according to 163.com.

I thought the next period would be very sweet but the truth was very different. Not long after getting married, the relationship broke down seriously. The main problem came from Mr. Vuong's wife.

Wedding photo of Mr. Vuong and his wife.

The wife had many lovers, one after another. Each time she was caught cheating, she sincerely admitted her mistake. Mr. Vuong softened his heart and forgave her, but the affair continued.

This was the fifth time the deception happened. He could not stand it anymore so he decided to file for divorce.

Faced with her husband's reaction, the wife had many things to express. She did not want a divorce.

She shared what happened in her marriage so that everyone could have a clearer view: " Since I got married, my husband has always beaten me. Even when I was pregnant, it was still like that. My husband's family is difficult and my mother-in-law always makes things difficult for her daughter-in-law. My days living there were very miserable."

Mr. Vuong is also not considerate in taking care of or behaving in the house, so his wife is even more frustrated.

Later, Mr. Vuong had a serious car accident, which left him with serious consequences. Although he recovered, he still could not find a job. Therefore, his wife had to go to another city to earn money to support the family.

Working hard and sending money home every month, the wife is not sympathetic to her husband, who takes it for granted that she has to provide money for her husband and mother-in-law.

His family did not care about how hard his wife had to work or how she lived alone there, but only cared about money.

Working hard, sending money home every month, but the wife does not receive sympathy from her husband, who takes it for granted that providing money for her husband and mother-in-law is the norm.

Gradually, the wife felt empty, longing to be cared for and loved. Therefore, when men courted her, she could not keep her heart because those men were willing to ask questions, listen to her tell about her difficulties and hardships.

She knew that her behavior was extremely wrong and unacceptable, but she still wanted to clarify the reasons behind it.

When her husband mentioned divorce, she did not agree. Not because she missed her husband's family, but because as a mother, she could not bear to leave her child in the care of Mr. Vuong's family.

As long as Mr. Vuong's family agreed to give up custody of the child, she would accept immediately. The two sides argued with each other, so the situation gradually fell into a deadlock that was difficult to resolve.

Later, Mr. Vuong also realized the problem. It was obvious that his wife worked so hard, but he and his mother treated her so badly.

He didn't know how to comfort her or care for her to ease her sadness and disappointment. He understood that it wasn't easy for his wife to go to work, but at this point, their relationship had spiraled out of control.

The wife was no longer faithful and had affairs outside. Their final outcome was divorce, beyond repair.

Top 5 reasons why women cheat

Women have affairs because of loneliness

As mentioned above, women expect more from their husbands than just a breadwinner. What they need is a shoulder to lean on, a true soul mate.

If the husband is too busy with work or shows indifference in the relationship, the woman will easily feel lonely and lack companionship.

The only thing they feel is their presence as a treasurer, accountant and housekeeper.

The reason is because they do not receive sympathy and recognition, as well as love and sharing from their husbands.

Over time, women feel lonely in their own homes, lacking the responsibility of "building a home" from their men.

So they tend to seek emotional connection from another man.

Warm guys who always listen and understand women's feelings will easily make these lonely, weak-hearted women fall for them after just a short time of contact.

If women feel lonely in their own homes, they will tend to seek emotional connection from another man. Illustration photo

Too demanding of a partner

Love and marriage are two completely different concepts. So you should be clear that the dreams, pampering, and promises you make when you are in love will not completely become reality when you two move towards marriage.

Once married, he won't be able to spend all day with you, or comfort you when you're upset.

He also doesn't have the ability to earn tens of millions like Ms. A's husband and come home on time for a meal cooked by his wife like Ms. B's colleague's husband.

Besides married life, besides the role of a husband, they also play billions of other roles in society.

A man is both a son to his parents and an employee, or is responsible for managing dozens of jobs. This leads to the fact that he cannot always put his wife as his top priority.

Having too high expectations of a partner can easily lead to disappointment and frustration. In the end, many women choose to escape reality and look for other options for themselves.

This is considered the "grass is greener on the other side" mentality and can easily lead to women having affairs, and more seriously, broken marriages.

Not recognized by husband

Women always find ways to compliment their husbands anytime, anywhere to supplement their love vitamins and bring positive energy to them.

On the contrary, do husbands really know how to praise and acknowledge their wives' efforts?

To have a happy family and smart children, women have to sacrifice: time, youth, friends, even family.

Husbands only know how to praise delicious pho and complain about boring home-cooked meals. But they rarely realize why women become old, grumpy and sloppy like that.

Many times, husbands always criticize their wives for small mistakes without paying attention to her efforts.

If compliments are the springboard for people to improve every day, then criticism and indifference easily cause negative emotions and reduce motivation to try.

While there are many thoughtful men out there who are willing to protect, praise and acknowledge them as a complete person, it is only a matter of time before women have affairs with ideal men.

Differences in qualifications and income levels

Recent studies have shown that the difference in education and income between men and women is one of the reasons for the increased rate of female infidelity.

Nowadays, women increasingly assert their position instead of becoming a housewife taking care of the family in the true sense.

The fact that a talented woman has an affair is not necessarily because she despises her husband, but can be due to the two reasons below.

Not "well-matched"

This seemingly old-fashioned concept is quite true when considering the case of adultery in the wife.

Because in each different social class, people will be exposed to people with different lifestyles and thoughts.

A good wife can easily get to know men with the same outlook on life as her, and of course she will feel that these men are more suitable than her husband with a limited vision.

A talented woman will have more stringent requirements for her husband. If the salary difference between husband and wife is less than 5 million, there is nothing to say.

However, the bigger the salary gap, the more the woman feels that her husband is "inferior" and does not make her feel secure in relying on him.

Although the husband's income is considered quite good compared to the average, it is overshadowed when placed next to his wife.

Even worse, when the wife's salary is two or three times that of the husband, the rate of women seeking other, safer options is even higher.

In each different couple, there will be many different reasons why women cheat.

However, ladies, remember that the man you are living with is the man you have chosen, loved, and shared many beautiful memories with. So don’t lose your man because of a moment of weakness or anger.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/su-that-dang-long-dang-sau-nguoi-phu-nu-ngoai-tinh-den-5-lan-172250124182915957.htm