Refused to date, beautiful mother of 3 cried but still gave her phone number

Coming to the show You want to date , Pham Thi Ut Nhi (41 years old) was paired with Nguyen Van Nham (42 years old). They both experienced deep trauma in their first marriages.

Ut Nhi is working in a seafood kitchen in Ho Chi Minh City. Meanwhile, Van Nham helps his parents grow dragon fruit in his hometown in Tien Giang and does extra work outside.

Previously, the girl had been through 3 official relationships, including her marriage to her ex-husband. The woman from Vinh Long was married for 4 years, had 3 children (two girls, one boy) and then divorced.

There were two things that Út Nhi did not like in men. One was promiscuity, the other was a love of gambling. Her ex-husband was a man of both.

Beautiful single mother tearfully tells the story of raising 3 children alone ( Video : NL).

When she had her first daughter (born in 2003), she discovered this and forgave her husband, giving him a chance to correct his mistakes. However, her husband continued his bad habits. When Ut Nhi gave birth to her youngest son (born in 2007), she decided to divorce him.

Because her husband was a civil servant, Ut Nhi and her husband broke up amicably. Her mother only found out 3 years later. In addition, her ex-husband gave Ut Nhi full authority to decide on the division of assets. After the breakup, she got a house in the countryside, which was considered a one-time allowance from her husband.

"I think it will be difficult to provide monthly support after a breakup, because everyone has their own life. I want to end it completely, I don't want to get entangled so I can plan my future career," the girl's family shared.

For 15 years, this woman has been raising her children alone. Now, she wants to find a suitable boyfriend to accompany her. Someone who is not like her ex-husband and is responsible.

Từ chối hẹn hò, bà mẹ 3 con xinh đẹp khóc nghẹn nhưng vẫn cho số điện thoại - 1 — Ut Nhi and Van Nham both experienced broken marriages (Photo: Screenshot).

Van Nham’s story is different. He has had two relationships. When he was 19, his parents asked for a wife for their son. After the wedding, his wife did not have to be a daughter-in-law and had a disagreement with her mother-in-law so she went back to her hometown.

At that time, Van Nham's ex-wife was pregnant with their eldest son. He felt sorry for his wife's hardship so he returned to his hometown to live with his wife's family. During his time in his hometown, he focused on his business.

"It's okay when we're poor, but when we have money, we compete and rush for everything. My younger sister just got married, and her parents gave her property, so they fought over it. They argued back and forth, and I realized that this situation wasn't good so we broke up," he said.

They have been married for 23 years and separated for two years. Six months ago, he received the official decision from the court. Van Nham's eldest son is now 23 years old and has his own life; his youngest daughter, 17 years old, is living with her mother.

Từ chối hẹn hò, bà mẹ 3 con xinh đẹp khóc nghẹn nhưng vẫn cho số điện thoại - 2 — Ut Nhi made cakes for the groom's family, while Van Nham gave flowers and a basket of dragon fruit to the bride's family (Photo: Screenshot).

Van Nham's younger sister got married, so he's the only one left at home. The groom's family is living with his parents, who are over 60 years old, in the countryside. After what he's been through, Van Nham hopes that his future girlfriend will be someone who knows how to share and be polite with her parents.

"Since ancient times, parents have been rumored to have a daughter-in-law but have never actually had a daughter-in-law," the groom's family confided. He added that what he fears most is being sad and lonely, with no one to confide in and share with.

Van Nham and Ut Nhi's representatives both rated the other as a cute, gentle person, suitable to rely on. After exchanging gifts, the male and female leads began to chat and get to know each other.

The bride's family said she did not mind living with her husband's parents. Her parents had passed away many years ago. She and her ex-husband moved out after getting married. Therefore, if she and Van Nham were to get together, she would also consider the groom's parents as her own.

Từ chối hẹn hò, bà mẹ 3 con xinh đẹp khóc nghẹn nhưng vẫn cho số điện thoại - 3 — In the end, only Van Nham pressed the select button (Photo: Screenshot).

After talking, Ut Nhi felt the sincerity and gentle nature of the groom. Van Nham realized that this was a strong woman. The bride admitted that she was not gentle, a bit clever and introverted.

But in the end, only Van Nham's signal light lit up, and Ut Nhi did not press the button. She was afraid that with her strong personality, she would make Van Nham suffer. Through the program, she hoped to find a better and more beautiful woman to love Van Nham. But if not, she was willing to exchange information with the groom's family.

"I didn't press the button, but we can still exchange phone numbers. Who knows, in getting to know each other, we might find mutual understanding," the girl's family said, choking up.

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