4 things high EQ parents never brag about

GĐXH - Even if you are a parent, you still need to cultivate yourself so that your children can follow your example. Parents with good parenting skills will transmit positive energy to their children. Incompetent parents can easily lead their children astray.

In life, smart parents will never show off these 4 things:

1. Show off money

In family life, money is always a sensitive and complicated topic. Parents often tend to want to protect their children from unnecessary worries and help them focus on their studies and personal development.

Parents bragging about finances or openly discussing money issues in front of their children do not have the expected benefits.

When parents talk too much about money, it can create unnecessary pressure on children. Children may feel that they need to achieve similar financial success to make their parents proud or to be worthy of the family.

This can make children uncomfortable sharing about personal pressures or failures, for fear of not meeting their parents' expectations.

In addition, bragging about money can also cause unhealthy comparisons between children and their friends. This can lead to jealousy, inferiority complex or division among classmates.

Additionally, parents who demonstrate attitudes that value money over other values ​​can negatively influence children's views and attitudes about money and success.

Children may develop the notion that money is the most important factor in judging their own and others' worth, thereby overshadowing the moral and human values ​​that parents wish to impart.

Finally, when parents do not keep financial information private, children may become anxious about the family's financial situation, no matter the circumstances.

This can cause stress and anxiety for young children who should be living in a peaceful environment and not be responsible for adult burdens.

To avoid these unwanted consequences, parents need to consider carefully before mentioning the issue of money in front of their children and should focus on educating them about the value of hard work, responsibility and compassion rather than the value of material things.

Parents bragging about their finances or openly discussing money matters in front of their children do not bring the expected benefits. Illustration photo

2. Brag about your children's achievements

As parents, everyone wants their children to be good and studious and will feel proud and want to "show off" when their children have good achievements.

However, parents with high EQ will know how to control that desire, they will never show off how good their children are in front of outsiders.

The reason is because they know very well that "there is always a mountain higher than the mountain". Their children are not the best so they do not need to show off too much, to avoid being compared to their children.

Instead, they will teach their children to be humble, to work hard and try harder when there are still many people out there who are better than them.

They will advise their children to "bow their heads when they are ripe", showing off their achievements to others will only bring them boredom and jealousy, not admiration.

Wise parents will know how to help their children shine in the right way, be recognized and admired by everyone, instead of making their children the object of gossip.

3. Show off your personal life

Personal feelings are private matters. Whether your relationship is flourishing or falling apart, it is not something to be brought out into the open and discussed.

If you are in a good relationship, bragging can make others feel uncomfortable with you especially when they are having emotional problems.

On the other hand, if you share too much about the negative things in your relationship, your child may have to listen to unnecessary gossip and receive ridicule from outsiders.

So, whether you are happy or sad, keep it to yourself. Everyone needs their own space and not everything needs to be shared publicly. Not everyone can feel your pain or your joy.

If you share too much about the negative things in your relationship, your child may have to hear unnecessary gossip. Illustration photo

4. Show off your family background

Just like showing off money, showing off family background will also bring many troubles to family and children.

Other people knowing that your family is powerful, has extensive connections or has good relationships with high-ranking or famous people will easily feel jealous and envious.

There will even be people who take advantage of you or your children to gain access to those relationships.

Therefore, wise parents will never flaunt their background. Instead, they will pay attention to cultivating skills and guiding their children in the right direction.

Children raised by such well-mannered parents are often very obedient, even if they don't grow up to be really good, they will know how to shine.

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