Wedding postponed because of... weight

- In February, Phan Nhu Thao shared with VietNamNet about her wedding preparation plan in Nha Trang. What are your current plans?

I often joke that I have to wait until I get thin before getting married. I don’t want to be a chubby bride or wear a wedding dress that doesn’t look good. But if I use weight as a criterion, I will never get married because I will always be chubby. However, my husband loves this idea and keeps asking for weddings.

- Besides the pressure from her husband, there is also pressure from her daughter. Before, she wanted to be present at her mother's wedding, but what about now?

She was very excited before, but when she grew up she understood that when her parents got married, they would have another baby. Now she refuses, saying " I don't want a sibling, let's not get married". But that's just a child's talk. Obviously, she loves parties, so I think if there was a wedding, she would be very happy.

- You manage your beauty business while helping your husband take over real estate projects. Do you think that is a barrier that makes it difficult for you to balance art, entertainment and business activities?

I have a million things I want to do but I have to prioritize. Obviously work comes first, family comes second. If I want to participate in other fields like acting, I will have to give up some things. Maybe when I focus on movies, I will temporarily stop my beauty business and find a manager to replace me. I have many ambitions but 24 hours a day is only enough.

If there is a suitable project that rekindles my passion, I am still ready. I often miss the feeling of transforming into a different character, not myself. I still have many invitations but they are not suitable for my time, age and the path I am pursuing. I am still waiting for an opportunity.

- If someone says "Phan Nhu Thao has so much money now that she still tries to do more projects", how would you react?

I am greedy for work, want to prove myself and the value I bring to society. Many people often say: "If I were Ms. Thao, I would just go out, travel , why spend money so hard?" But I think everyone has a different meaning of life. The meaning of my life is to contribute, to work to be happy.

Phan Nhu Thao admits to being greedy about work.

"I am not a good mother or wife"

- How do you balance your time taking care of your husband and children to do a good job while maintaining family affection?

I am not a good mother or wife. I can’t balance anything. Luckily, I have a husband who always compensates, takes care of the children, gives me the freedom to do what I should do and still waits for me to come home. Every night, we have little time to talk and take care of each other, much less than other families. But for me, that is happiness.

- In a day, what moment makes you feel warm and most connected to your family?

That was our dinner together. My family has a habit of trying to go to bed together at 9pm to watch TV, chat, listen to music. Around 10pm, my father and I go to sleep, I get up to work until 1 or 2am.

- You go to work while your husband is retired and stays home to take care of the children. Do you ever feel jealous when your wife works too much and neglects her family and children?

He is only jealous of work, not of people. What he is jealous of is that I work all day, always asking: "When will the work be finished? " But he is gentle and does not get angry, so I consider myself very lucky. I also try to adjust myself, when I go too much or do too much, I remind him to correct it. Most importantly, always remember to spend time with loved ones, do not let work overwhelm everything.

- It has been about a year since you officially registered your marriage. Has this decision brought any positive changes to your marriage? Do you feel it is different from before or is it still normal?

We registered our marriage with the sole purpose of giving him the right to transfer all his assets to me, not because we loved each other too much or for any other reason. We lived together for 10 years, registering our marriage is mandatory when giving assets because it must be given to the wife or blood relatives, not to strangers because the law does not allow it.

Phan Nhu Thao's happy family.

Everything of his is mine

- There were some funny comments online when you received an apartment as a gift from your husband. People said you weren't surprised because you can earn a lot of money so this is normal. What do you think?

I also have no need or expectation for any gift from him because I know everything he has is mine. I will hope he cooks something better, hope he feels happy. When he comes home happy or wants to travel somewhere, I will hope for that more.

- Does that mean now you only prioritize the spiritual values ​​he brings. Is material things enough for you?

I often get scolded or the community says why marry a rich man if it’s not about money? When you don’t have money, you will do it for money, but when you have it, you will do it for something else, prioritize other values. But saying it’s always about money is not okay.

- Would you be upset if you heard someone say you married him for his money?

People often ask: " If he wasn't talented, not rich, would I still marry him?"... Why would I marry a man who wasn't talented? I'm talented, right? I know people out there don't think, they just ask that question. If my husband suddenly went bankrupt, I would still be by his side, supporting him, taking care of him, and worrying about him for the rest of his life. But if he became poor before I knew, I wouldn't necessarily marry him.

- Friends from showbiz, who means the most to you during your career transition or when facing life's troubles?

Supermodel Ngoc Thach calls me occasionally. For example, recently there was a scandal, she would ask: "What's going on?", tell me to call a lawyer and then hang up. That's someone who calls once every 2 years but clearly they care. Besides, I have Do Long - someone I see once every 3 years but still the same as 10 years ago. Then Ngoc Trinh, Khac Tiep, those are people who have been with me since the beginning and I still love, worry, and think about them.

- After stopping your artistic activities, do you think those are the values ​​and luck accumulated when working in many fields?

I am very reluctant to use relationships or the love others have for me. For me, if something can be solved with money, I will use money. If I can afford it, I will pay. Because using emotions to ask for help must be paid with emotions, and emotions are the most valuable thing, immeasurable. I want to save it for truly urgent matters that money cannot solve.

Phan Nhu Thao's family is happy together:

Minh Dung

Photos, videos : NVCC, FBNV

10 years of living together 'without papers' is like a dream of Phan Nhu Thao and tycoon Duc An. The love story of model - actress Phan Nhu Thao and businessman Duc An shows that happiness comes from absolute trust and love, without the need for paperwork.

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