Practice 7 skills to help children learn respect and yell less

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Social skills need to be continually developed as children grow. These skills continue to develop with age and can be learned and strengthened with effort and practice.

Every child can learn skills if parents educate them properly.

Children need to learn to share.

Being willing to share snacks or toys can go a long way in helping your child make and maintain friends.

According to a study published in the journal Psychological Science , children as young as 2 years old can show a desire to share with others, but usually only when they have more than they need.

Don't force your child to share, but you can often show them the beautiful images that come from sharing. When your child knows how to share, praise them and explain to them how their actions help others, for example, "You know how to share with your friend. I believe that your friend will be very happy. This is a good thing for you to do."

Cooperate

Cooperation means working together to achieve a common goal. Children who cooperate respect the requests of others and contribute, participate, and help. Good cooperation skills are essential for successful integration in the community.

Cooperation also teaches children to be positive in the face of adversity, that being happy for others' successes does not diminish their own self-worth.

Parents should talk to their children about the importance of teamwork and cooperation, and how work is better when everyone pitches in. Creating opportunities for the whole family to work together, such as preparing meals or doing housework, gives children practice in the most familiar environment.

Listen

Listening is not just keeping quiet, but actually taking in what the other person is saying. This is an important element of healthy communication and building empathy. A child who cannot listen and understand what others are saying will have difficulty showing compassion or wanting to help.

Parents can develop listening skills in children by reading to them, occasionally stopping and asking them to retell what you have just read. Help your child fill in any missing details and encourage them to continue listening.

Don't let your child interrupt when others are speaking, or pick up a technology device while you're having a conversation.

Follow the instructions

Children who do not have the ability to follow directions can get into all sorts of trouble, from having to redo homework to getting into trouble with misbehavior. To help children develop this skill, parents need to do a good job of giving appropriate directions.

Give only one command at a time, let your child complete it, then give another. Remember that it is normal for children to make mistakes, get distracted, act impulsively, and forget commands. Use these as opportunities to help your child practice skills, and praise them when they do things right.

Respect personal space

Teach your child to respect other people's personal space, establish family rules such as knocking on closed doors and not touching strangers. If your child grabs things from other people's hands or pushes them when they are impatient, use punishments to stop this behavior.

There are many situations you can create to help your child practice respecting different personal spaces. As your child gets older, you can explain the concept of boundaries, including setting boundaries for yourself and respecting the boundaries of others.

Eye contact

Some children have difficulty looking at the person they are talking to. Eye contact is an important skill for children to learn. For shy children, gently remind them instead of scolding them, and praise them when they do well.

Appropriate behavior

Learning to say "please," "thank you," and to have good manners goes a long way. Everyone respects a child who knows how to behave.

Teaching manners can be difficult for young children. Sometimes they are not aware of their manners. However, parents need to teach their children to be polite and respectful, especially in other people's homes and in public.

Be a good role model for your child so they learn from you. Remind them when they forget to behave and praise them when you see them behaving appropriately.