How to recognize such men?

GĐXH - Runner-up Phuong Nhi's shares about love and criteria for choosing a life partner attract public attention.

After the engagement ceremony, information about the beauty attracted public attention, including the shares of runner-up Phuong Nhi in the TEE & TEA Podcast program in January 2024 with Minh Trieu. In this conversation, the beauty mentioned many aspects of life, from personal development to views on family and love.

Runner-up Phuong Nhi

Phuong Nhi once frankly shared that, in terms of love, Phuong Nhi considers herself a loyal person, valuing stability and security in relationships. However, she also accepts changes from both sides. The important thing is that the feelings for each other must be strong. She does not want to be with someone who has too many outside concerns and spends little time with her.

"With someone who has many other interests, such as enjoying having fun with friends more than spending time with me, I will not consider that person as a long-term companion. I need security," the runner-up born in 2002 confided.

Contrary to the image of a jealous girl, Phuong Nhi affirms that she trusts her lover if they trust her. She is cautious in relationships and needs time to build trust. However, once she trusts, she will devote all her heart to that relationship.

" I'm the type of person who 'let the rain soak in the soil' so it takes time for me to trust someone. I don't always invest in a relationship because I have many other concerns. But once I trust them, I will spend a lot of time and effort on them," Phuong Nhi said in the program.

The runner-up born in 2002 also shared more about the criteria for choosing a life partner, which is someone with the will to progress and ambition, who can motivate her to develop. She wants a relationship where they progress together, not accepting stagnation. She also revealed that she likes guys who know how to coax and are willing to listen and talk to her.

"I am attracted to people who are ambitious and progressive. If I am with them, they will push me. If I am standing still and they are moving forward, I do not want to go with them. Or if I am moving too fast and they are standing still, it will not last long, " she confided.

How to recognize ambitious and progressive men?

Phuong Nhi's sharing is also the thoughts of many girls when choosing a life partner. Because, a man with a progressive spirit, he will know how to love, take care of you, try to bring you a better life. If you choose a rich man, but has no progressive spirit, only lives on his parents' assets, all day only knows how to party and hang around. One day when his parents are no longer around, will he be able to take on that career on his own?

Or he puts it on the brink of bankruptcy, and he can only cry to heaven, lament his fate, instead of trying to start over, he drowns his sorrows in alcohol, always thinking that he is unlucky. Is your life happy then?

Therefore, when choosing a partner, the most important thing for women is to choose a man with a progressive spirit. But the problem is how to recognize a man without a progressive spirit to avoid him. Let’s refer to the following ways of thinking:

1. Look at his sense of responsibility

To evaluate whether a man is ambitious or not, look at his sense of responsibility for his work, this is the most important factor. A man with a high sense of responsibility has motivation and a clear direction in his work, only then can he develop his career.

So a man without ambition is an irresponsible person, always relying on others. When the boss assigns him work, when he encounters difficulties at work, he does not think of a way to solve the problem, but only goes around complaining to this person and that person. Such people are people without ambition, their future is not very bright.

Therefore, when encountering an irresponsible man, women should find a way to stay away, or they will encounter difficulties in the future.

2. Look at his attitude towards life and current work

Nowadays, many young people are always satisfied with the present, some feel that their current life is too good, and do not need to ask for too much. They are always satisfied with what they have, some even pat themselves on the back, saying that they are too talented, there is nothing left for them to strive to conquer. This is a typical expression of men who do not have the will to improve.

Ambitious men are not easily satisfied with their current life. They always feel the need to try harder. They feel that the world still has many interesting things to discover.

3. Look at his ideal career goals

When people are born, everyone wants to become a talented person, a person who is useful to society, and studying is also the best way to escape poverty. No one is born knowing everything. In this vast world, we need to constantly strive to learn, like Lenin once said "Study, study more, study forever", it is never too late to learn. This is a manifestation of people with the will to progress.

For them, every day, every age, every time, they need to study, enrich their knowledge, and cultivate skills to perfect themselves. "Learn more, learn forever" does not stop at learning from books, but also have to learn more knowledge outside, only then can we reach out to the world.

People who do not have the will to improve do not have such thoughts. Just mentioning studying, opening books makes them feel dizzy. Therefore, they cannot go further in their thinking as well as in their career path.

4. Do you think about giving your family members a better life?

The motivation for men to try harder is that they always want to bring their loved ones a better life. This is also their biggest goal, once they have a goal they will strive to complete that goal. Therefore, a man with such a thought proves that he is a very responsible person for himself, his family and society, this is definitely a person with ambition.

There are men who always think, each person eats their own food, each person does their own work, everyone has hands and feet, everyone works, no need to worry too much about their children's future life. They only work day by day, work as much as they can, have nothing to save for the future, and never think of family as a goal to strive for. When you meet someone who thinks like that, it's best to stay away, because he is definitely a person with no ambition at all.

5. Are you lazy at work or in life?

A man with ambition is a man full of courage, trying hard to work to create a solid economic foundation and take care of his family.

There is a lazy man, not taking care of work, quitting his job at the slightest thing, jumping from one company to another, not doing housework when coming home, or preferring to ask his mother for money to take his girlfriend out. When you meet a man like that, you need to reconsider the relationship between you and that man. Because ambitious people never let their minds be idle, and they are always financially independent. Outside of society, they are good people, but when they come home, they know how to help take care of their family, that is a truly ambitious man.

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