Old man tries every way to flirt with woman 32 years younger because of 'love at first sight'

GĐXH - He tried every way to get a chance to go out with the girl of his dreams.

Charity Wilson (40 years old, lifeguard, England) first met writer David (72 years old) 7 years ago at a religious event.

David immediately noticed Charity and asked her out, but the 33-year-old woman ignored him at the time because she only saw David as an old man.

Not giving up, David tried every way to ask for a date with the girl of his dreams. After only 3 weeks of dating, Charity realized that she was in love with David.

One fine day, the old man suddenly proposed and Charity happily agreed.

Despite his old age, David's personality and lifestyle (in white shirt) are still like that of a young person. Photo: Mirror.

"I wasn't even looking for love, but since we became friends, that feeling came over me and I couldn't resist. I also didn't expect him to propose, so when he did, I was quite shocked," Charity shared.

The mother of two added that what attracted her to David was his personality and good looks.

In addition, the two also had many things in common, which was the most important thing that brought them closer together. 8 months later, they got married.

"Despite receiving countless stares from strangers due to the age gap, we have never felt uncomfortable. We feel stronger after overcoming many challenges together. If people don't ask, we forget how old we are," said Mr. David.

Luckily, they received a lot of support from their family.

"You can find a very mature 21-year-old, and there are also many 72-year-olds with the mentality of a teenager. The most important thing in a relationship is trust and unconditional love," Charity's mother expressed.

How does age gap affect love?

Difference in thinking: Maturity in thinking can be the biggest hurdle in a love relationship with age difference.

Young people in love are almost always enthusiastic, impulsive and lack calmness and patience. While older lovers are much calmer and more patient.

For some people, a big age difference in love is just a number, but many others consider it a worrying thing. Illustrative photo

Different habits and interests: When you love someone much older, you may not realize the big differences in habits and interests at the beginning.

But once you live together, you will start to notice a huge difference in personal behavior and even expectations between you two.

For example, you eat haphazardly and haphazardly while your partner prefers a nutritious and calorie-packed meal. These small details may be cute at first but can make a serious difference and lead to the breakdown of your relationship later on.

Age Insecurity: No one likes getting older, especially older people. When you see your lover happily chatting with someone their own age, you might wonder if they are better off with someone their own age than with you?

Money: "A large age gap can create money issues," says TJ Walsh, MA, counselor and psychotherapist at the Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

For example, retirement, when one of the two people reaches retirement age, of course the family's income will decrease.

Adjusting income and dividing household chores can cause tension in love or marriage.

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