Living together, fed up with messy roommate, brought boyfriend home

Studying away from home and sharing a room, young people should arrange their belongings neatly to avoid affecting their roommates - Photo: WHITE CLOUD

More than 1,100 comments, many of which sympathized and tagged friends because "this is similar to my situation when I shared a room with you before", "it looks familiar", "it's like something I've experienced before".

"See me, I'm moving out"

Looking at the photos of unwashed dishes, messy furniture, and gentle reminders from the poster, Ha Pham frankly said: "They're talented at living with them even though they're roommates. It's better to move out. I'm sick of thinking about it."

Gia Vinh wrote: "Looking at the pile of dishes and pots makes me so angry." Hoang Yen expressed: "Can't even put the lid on the salt shaker?"

Similarly, account N Bong suggested: "Just find someone else to share a room with. Don't you have the sense to say anything?" Friend Tien Tran wondered: "But the status owner still calls herself 'ba ba toi toi', how could she be so patient when meeting me?" "This person is actually kind, if she met me she would scold me, I would move out," Hien commented.

Renting a room, finding a suitable roommate is also a headache - Illustration: WHITE CLOUD

Some of you think the status owner is too easygoing. The account Khung Long warned that being easygoing when sharing a house creates people who don't know how to behave, and he himself hates people who don't have this kind of awareness. Pham Linh joked: "You need to learn patience from this status owner."

Some of you think that we should ask this "naughty" person to move to another place, change roommates. Or install a camera to make the other person more aware.

The disaster of sharing a room and bringing your boyfriend home

More patient, Tuyet Tran said if it were her, and her roommate was dirty, she would clean up. But if she brought her boyfriend home, that would be unacceptable.

Similarly, Thao Vy commented: "Living together without being considerate. Living together and bringing your boyfriend home and making noise, who can sleep?"

There should be an agreement on cleaning and hygiene when sharing a room so that roommates feel more comfortable - Illustration: WHITE CLOUD

Andrea Tran also suggested that either the status owner should clean up or the other person should wash the dirty dishes.

"If a girl is dirty, has messy belongings, goes out dressed up and comes home messy, then I can't stand it. And also brings her boyfriend home to "film" action movies. Then let them stay there. Living together like this will only bring bad luck," this person was upset.

When reading the messages that only this friend reminded, like the room has a lot of ants, is dirty because the other friend left food around, and the other friend did not reply, Bang Trinh account was fed up: "Living together but it feels like living with a ghost. One person talks to themselves, the other is silent as a clam. Like this, move out in 3 days."

Cohabitation, agreement, compromise to some extent

Not only messy and dirty, many roommates also make their roommates bored because of their lack of thoughtfulness in daily life.

Ms. Anh Tho (27 years old, office worker in Tan Phu district, Ho Chi Minh City) said that she used to share a room with a friend, but could not stand it when she stayed up late every night, made noise and left the lights on. Every time she was angry with her boyfriend, she cried, sat absent-mindedly and then her boyfriend came to find her, called Ms. Tho to open the gate, called to ask about the situation...

"This friend often borrowed my clothes to wear, sometimes without even asking first. After living together for a year, I felt frustrated so I told her I had a new place closer to work and had to move out," Ms. Tho said. Until the day she moved out, her friend still hadn't returned all the clothes she had borrowed from her because she hadn't returned from a trip .

According to Ms. Tho, if young people share a room, they must accept that there will be inconveniences. Before moving in, young people should make an agreement or state requirements such as keeping clean, not sharing personal belongings, etc.

"You should say it straight away: don't bring your boyfriend to your room. Lose his favor first, win his later, but if something troublesome happens later, it will be very tiring," Ms. Tho advised.

Some accounts, when commenting on the above complaint status, said that one should not share a room with strangers, and agreed that one should find friends and acquaintances with similar interests and habits to make it easier to behave. When feeling that the roommate is too much, one should give advice, one of the two should adjust, move out, and not endure it.

Moreover, sharing a room during the student and new working period makes it easier to sympathize with each other. But when we have been working for a long time, have a lot of pressure in life, and need our own space, we can consider living alone. The cost may be higher, but in return we can rest comfortably.

Source: https://tuoitre.vn/o-ghep-ngan-ngam-ban-cung-phong-bay-hay-dat-ban-trai-ve-2024082608043656.htm