'You can stay or go...'

This type of man gets you caught in a love triangle. But when you speak up, he will find a way to shirk responsibility. How to deal with this type of man?

Avoid responsibility

The reason he didn't make a choice was because he couldn't take responsibility. In fact, this man was a typical weak and evasive person, even his heart was very fragile.

When the situation gets out of hand, he is ready to cry in public like a child. He does not keep his word, constantly changes his mind and runs away when faced with problems that cannot be solved. These are all normal behaviors of a child.

When dealing with this type of person, if you are on the same page as him and let him lead, waiting for him to show his attitude and solve the problem, then you will also become a child in the relationship.

So you need to treat him like an adult to protect yourself. You have to use both soft skills and hard skills to negotiate.

Stand up for yourself first. Only when you are strong can you suppress him. However, don't stop there. If he doesn't answer your phone or contact you, you shouldn't wait for him passively.

Your first step is to pick yourself up, don't be reckless and analyze the situation under the guidance of "psychologists" in your family or friends, instead, find out his and his lover's weaknesses yourself.

Only when you have practiced your words and controlled your emotions then talk to him. At this point, it is not too late to get angry with him.

The reason is that the above basic preparations allow you to predict his behavior and consequences to the greatest extent possible, so you will not feel out of control and calmly face it.

Don't let men "choose you", let men "follow you"

Only if you are strong can you suppress him. (Photo: ITN).

If a marriage goes into “flight mode,” it’s not long before it’s doomed. You’ll find that the more women push for “choosing one or the other” and having to deal with issues without avoiding them, the more men want to run away and confront you.

In fact, there are two types of feelings that men must pursue at all costs in relationships. Wherever these two feelings are, he will run there. This is why he cheats, and this is why he comes home.

In essence, he loves someone who can fulfill his needs, if you can provide it, he will love you; if you can't provide it, he will turn away.

So, the first feeling is the feeling of value. Many psychologists agree that the happiest time of a woman's life is the most dangerous time of her life. Because women's desire for marriage is peace.

But men need to feel loved throughout their lives, because love increases the value of men, while marriage lowers the value of men.

In a relationship, a man always needs a certain position. In love, he can feel that all the woman's thoughts are directed towards him, but in marriage, it is difficult for a woman to focus completely on the man.

After all, in a marriage, words are like magic, if you don't know how to control your emotions, you will tend to become a victim of men.

In other words, many women feel hurt by just a few words. They do not know that men have long been looking for women who can control their thoughts. If you can understand a man's thoughts, your marriage will be truly long-lasting and stable.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/chong-ngoai-tinh-con-to-ra-yeu-duoi-em-muon-di-hay-o-cung-duoc-172241014100142554.htm