It's okay for men to be poor, but if they complain about being poor a lot, women should be careful!
My sister just broke up with her college boyfriend. Of course she was sad. I had to take her out to relieve stress, but if I asked her to do it again, she would want to end it sooner to avoid wasting time.
Bao has been my sister's lover since her second year of college until now, after graduating and working for 3 years. Oh! Exactly, my sister has been working for 3 years, but Bao hasn't worked at all.
At that time, sometimes my sister brought her boyfriend to visit her hometown, but I didn't really like it. Every time he came to visit, he stayed at my house for a whole month, ate very naturally, and when the food wasn't enough, he asked for more, but my parents were hospitable, so they didn't pay much attention to it. Since my parents didn't mind, I didn't dare say anything.
We have been in love for so many years, and have visited my house countless times, but Bao has never once brought home a cake or an orange to give to my parents. Every time he did, he would sing this song:
- I'm so shy but I'm a poor student, I don't have any gifts to give when I visit you two.
Of course, every time I finished singing that song, my parents would happily say "it's okay". If they didn't say that, what else could they say? Wouldn't my parents agree and chase away their daughter's boyfriend?
Actually, a kilo of oranges or a dozen boxes of green rice cakes are not worth much money, but at least they show people your sincerity. Sometimes when he buys them and brings them as gifts, my parents will tell him to eat them, they don't ask for anything.
That's a story about human relations, but the love story of Mr. Bao and my sister is a legend that I have to remember in my head so that I will never choose the wrong person so terribly.
Bao always says he is poor and that students don't have money, but my sister and Bao are the same age. If he doesn't have money, my sister probably does!
But instead of complaining, my sister chose to work part-time since she was in college. She worked as a waitress at a coffee shop, sometimes washing dishes at a restaurant. There was even a period of time when she worked at a 24-hour store, coming home from school and then working as a waitress, standing there until the next morning, carrying her backpack to school again.
Of course, going to work means having money. Bao knew that my sister had some money coming in, so he often went to her house to eat, asking for more bowls and chopsticks. Where did he get the extra bowl and chopsticks? Was he just eating for air, asking for just extra bowls and chopsticks?
After so many years of being in love, my sister never received a single gift from him. Well, holidays can be skipped, but she still got nothing on her birthday. My sister also did not ask for anything, a rose at that time probably only cost 5 thousand but my sister never even received the stem.
Unfortunately, young girls think that because their lover is in such a difficult situation, they have to stay by his side. If they leave him because he doesn't have money, they are worthless. So even though there is no joy in that relationship, filled with only self-pity, my sister doesn't dare to break up.
In addition, Bao also suffered from delusions. He often told my sister that when he had money, this would be like that. He didn't know when his future would be. If he didn't work, where would he get money to dream?
Well, when we were students, we could still use that as an excuse, but now we've both graduated, my sister has been working for 3 years now, and her boyfriend still sings the song "I have no money".
My sister is pretty and agile, so when she goes to work and meets new people, many guys notice her, but because she is still in a relationship with Bao, she refuses a lot.
It wasn't until yesterday, on her birthday, instead of receiving a gift from her lover, she received a most depressing phone call from him.
- Hey, are you done with work yet? Find a bottle of Lavie and run out to buy me some gas. My car ran out of gas in the middle of the road and I'm out of money. I don't have enough money to buy gas.
Only then did my sister realize that poor men were not a problem at all, but men who often complained about poverty and used it as a despicable excuse to be lazy and lack ambition were very problematic.
So my sister decided to break up right away. Right on her 26th birthday and right on the phone to ask for gas because she ran out of money. So quickly and decisively, the love from our college days just went up in smoke!
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