The school has a rule that students do not call each other 'wife, husband, husband, wife'.

Candidates taking the 10th grade entrance exam in 2024 in Hanoi - Photo: NGUYEN BAO

From the beginning of the 2024-2025 school year, the principal of Truc Thuan Secondary School, Truc Ninh District, Nam Dinh has issued a notice on the code of cultural conduct of students in the school towards teachers, friends, and family.

Don't bring up your flaws

Accordingly, Truc Thuan Secondary School stipulates that students must address each other in a friendly, open, and clear manner, without fussiness or mannerisms.

Do not call each other by words reserved for respectful people such as "sir", "madam", "father", "mother"; do not call each other by words indicating marital relationships such as "wife", "husband", "husband", "wife"; do not call each other by movie or gangster terms (big brother, senior sister...).

In particular, students should not call their friends by their parents’ or grandparents’ names, or by physical defects or personality traits. They should address their friends at school as friends or by their first names.

In fact, there are students who have physical defects and are nicknamed by their friends, causing them to feel self-conscious, self-conscious, and afraid to communicate...

When greeting friends, the school requires students to be sincere and tactful, not to hide each other's shortcomings, not to avoid or look down on sick, disabled or disadvantaged people...

For teachers, school staff and visitors to the school, the school stipulates that students must behave in a respectful and orderly manner when asking and answering questions, with questions and answers being concise and clear, with polite yes/no, appropriate to the pedagogical environment.

Questions and answers must have a subject and show politeness, such as "Hello teacher, hello teacher, sir, ma'am, sir (according to age-appropriate seniority)...

When bothering someone, you should say, "Sir, please let me bother you for a moment; Sir, please let me bother you for a moment..." with an attitude of needing help from the teacher.

When you make a mistake, choose the right time to apologize, avoid crowded places or during work or class hours. The apology must show sincerity, a true sense of guilt and a desire to correct the mistake, such as "I'm sorry teacher, I know I was wrong".

Do not use social networks to badmouth others

In Bac Ninh , Lang Ngam Secondary School (Gia Binh district) also requires students to respect the differences of others, not calling friends names associated with physical defects or individual personality traits.

At the same time, students are required not to avoid or look down on people who are sick, disabled or in difficult circumstances. When congratulating your friends, make sure to be cheerful, friendly, not fussy, not embarrassing. Do not discriminate against or discriminate against religion or family background.

When resolving disagreements and conflicts, be gentle, reasonable, and not arrogant, challenging, or competitive; know how to listen actively and give constructive feedback to maintain solidarity.

Previously, Tien Phong Primary School, Yen Dung District, Bac Giang also issued a code of conduct between students, in which the school stipulated that students do not use the Internet or social networks to speak ill of or spread propaganda to defame or incite hatred against others.

The Ministry of Education and Training has issued Circular No. 06/2019, regulating the code of conduct in preschools, general education institutions, and continuing education institutions. Accordingly, heads can rely on the provisions of this Circular to develop a code of conduct in educational institutions.

The development, amendment and supplementation of the content of the code of conduct must be discussed democratically, objectively, publicly and with the consensus of the majority of members in the educational institution.

Source: https://tuoitre.vn/truong-quy-dinh-hoc-sinh-khong-goi-nhau-la-con-vo-thang-chong-ong-xa-ba-xa-20241203182326022.htm