Why has musician Nguyen Van Chung with billion views still chosen to be a single father for many years?

Musician with billions of views Nguyen Van Chung - author of a series of songs that are associated with the youth of generations such as Mother's Diary, Warm Wind Scarf, Purple Crystal ... is loved by the audience not only for his emotional melodies but also for his life story of many sacrifices. At the age of over 40, he chose to live quietly as a single father, wholeheartedly raising his children, accepting to put aside his own happiness so that his children would not suffer more pain.

There is no such thing as luck, it is the father's responsibility to protect his children.

Nguyen Van Chung had an unfulfilled marriage. After the divorce, he took on most of the responsibility of raising his children. There were moments when just one innocent question from his child: "Why don't you live with your mother?" made him feel like there was a cut in his heart. That remorse and guilt always lingered, forcing him to remind himself to compensate with more love and care.

Sharing with VietNamNet reporter about the reason why he still chooses to live a single father life, musician Nguyen Van Chung said he always worries that his son might be hurt if he remarries without meeting a woman who is tolerant and kind enough. The story of the boy writing a 3-page handwritten letter after being abused by his stepmother recently made the musician of Mother's Diary heartbroken.

"People often say that children being abused by stepmothers is a matter of luck, but I don't think so. It's the father's irresponsibility. Because every father has the right to choose and must prioritize the safety and happiness of his children above all else. If he puts personal feelings first, he must ensure his children have the minimum safety at all costs. That is an unavoidable responsibility," he affirmed.

According to Nguyen Van Chung, the love of a stranger will hardly be comparable to the love for his own child. Therefore, he always considers carefully before thinking about remarrying. For him, the most important thing is not to find a woman who loves her son as her own child, but only that they have enough compassion to treat a child kindly and fairly.

"I don't need them to love my children like their own. They just need to love them with the minimum affection an adult has for a child. Like a teacher, she can't love her students like her own children but still care for them, show concern, and comfort them when they're sad, or can't bear to let them go hungry or hurt. Just having that minimum kindness is enough," he added.

For Nguyen Van Chung, if a father or mother after divorce chooses a new love but forgets the safety of their child, it is unconscious and irresponsible. That is why he chose to raise his child alone, devoting all his love, protection and responsibility to his son.

Musician Nguyen Van Chung plays with his children.

Nguyen Van Chung shared that being a single father is not only about financial responsibility but also a challenging journey when he has to replace the mother's role in every meal, sleep, when the child is sick, or when the child needs a shoulder to cry on.

"I never allow myself to neglect my responsibility to my children," the musician said.

In daily life, children are always Nguyen Van Chung's number 1 priority. He believes that taking care of children is not only about providing them with material things but also about accompanying them in their studies, in their emotional changes, in their joys of playing and in their teenage struggles.

Despite being busy with his writing work, Nguyen Van Chung still arranges time to take his children to school, go out, and chat every night. Sometimes, taking care of his children causes his writing work to slow down, but he accepts it because "his career may be a little slower, but his children need him right now."

In addition to his biological son, Nguyen Van Chung also adopted Suri - his niece, since she was a child. She had fallen into depression, lived a withdrawn life, and spoke little. Under his patient care and love, Suri gradually regained her smile and innocence. For Nguyen Van Chung, nurturing a wounded soul was much more difficult than worrying about food and money, but seeing her child gradually recover, he felt all the efforts were worth it.

Nguyen Van Chung admits that he doesn't have much time for love anymore because work, children and family are all taken up. Only when his children are old enough and mature enough, can he think about himself.

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The secret behind the lyrics that made 'Musician with billion views' Nguyen Van Chung shed tears . When composing the song "Mother's Diary", musician Nguyen Van Chung did not expect to experience the last moment with his mother like the song.

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