On a youth forum, the story of a girl being "exposed" by her future brother-in-law for refusing to wash dishes or help clean up when meeting her boyfriend's family is becoming a topic attracting attention.
The younger sister wrote: "The story is that my brother brought his girlfriend home to meet his parents. My mother and I prepared rice and food in advance in the afternoon so that my brother and his girlfriend could eat right away when they came home. The whole family ate normally, until they finished eating. My brother's girlfriend said, 'I'm done eating,' then went to the living room to sit and drink water without saying a word about helping with the dishes or anything. At this point, I was very surprised by my brother's girlfriend's attitude.
My mother is kind so she told me to just go sit and rest, leave the dishes there and I'll clean them up. After that, my brother's girlfriend said she was craving milk tea and asked my brother to go buy some, so he went too. Then she left everything there, my mother, my father and I cleaned it up. Then my brother and his girlfriend went straight to his room to play, leaving me and my mother to clean up.
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Disgruntled with his brother's girlfriend, the author of the article declared that " he will definitely find a way to destroy her and not let her become his sister-in-law." The posted photo shows a girl sitting on a chair playing with her phone, while a middle-aged woman (the boyfriend's mother) is busy cleaning the house.
Immediately after being posted on a Facebook page with 3.3 million followers, this article quickly attracted nearly 10,000 likes, nearly 4,000 comments with fierce debates. Many comments harshly criticized the behavior of the girl when she first met her boyfriend's family. They said that if she didn't wash the dishes, she should at least help her family clean up.
"Young people nowadays are so strange, this is the minimum courtesy. Even though you are a guest, you still have to be considerate. No one forces you to do anything, but if you go straight to your room after eating, you are already being unreasonable"; "This is called lack of awareness. When going to a friend's house, you have to know how to help clean up, let alone going to your lover's house. If you behave like that, people will judge the girl one and judge her parents ten times"; "This girl doesn't know what shyness is, even if her mother-in-law is easygoing, she should still be aware"...
Some opinions say that the son also doesn't know how to behave: "The son is too indulgent with his girlfriend, asking to buy milk tea and she goes to buy it right away, and even drags her up to the room, that's weak"; "The son doesn't help his parents at all, so his girlfriend will be the same, like a pot, like a lid"...
However, many netizens do not agree with the future sister-in-law's way of exposing, especially the declaration that she will interfere in her brother's love relationship. They think that even if a sister is upset, she should behave properly and should not look at her with an overly scrutinizing gaze, nor should she take the matter of washing dishes too seriously: "My family has a very open view of boys' lovers, I don't want my daughter to be pressured to wash dishes, clean up and be scrutinized too much when she first meets her husband's family"; "I think you should just give your brother gentle advice, but not interfere too much, the choice of a life partner is his choice, he will have to accept it"...
The story was posted 2 days ago but still continues to receive many comments and cause controversy.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/co-gai-ve-ra-mat-khong-rua-bat-con-doi-tra-sua-dan-mang-tranh-cai-du-doi-172240718085128442.htm
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