This is the greatest asset of middle age

01.

Recently, a video was widely shared on Chinese social media and touched countless netizens. According to the video, in Jiaxing, Zhejiang, a 14-year-old boy took his mother to the hospital for treatment. His father was on a business trip away from home. Because his mother suddenly fell ill, the boy was the only one taking care of her, taking care of everything, from registering for examination, getting injections, receiving medicine, etc.

Halfway through the infusion, his exhausted mother fell asleep. At this time, the boy remembered that his school bag was still at home, so he went to the reception desk and asked the nurse to take care of his mother. After finishing taking care of his mother, the boy cycled home to get his school bag and homework, then quickly returned to the hospital.

When he returned to the nurse, he brought her a cup of milk tea to thank her for taking care of his mother while he was away. Seeing that his mother was still sleeping, he sat on the ground, placed his homework on the hospital corridor chair, and focused on doing his homework.

Because his mother suddenly fell ill, the 14-year-old boy was left alone to take care of her, taking care of everything from registering for medical examinations, getting IVs, receiving medicine... and then obediently sitting in the hallway doing homework.

After his mother woke up, she asked him why he went home to get his bag. He said, "Because I'll be watching my younger brother all night, I'm not sure if I'll have time to do my homework. I'm afraid I'll be too sleepy to do it later, so I want to do it now and preview tomorrow's class."

Before the mother could say anything, the boy continued: "Mom, I know you're afraid Dad will worry, so I didn't call him."

This video was filmed and posted online, then immediately became a hot topic, widely discussed.

Many parents praised the boy for being obedient, understanding, and polite when asking for help. From the video, people also saw the boy’s initiative in studying, self-discipline, and filial piety. Everyone wished him a bright future.

"I think anyone who has such a child will feel happy."

"Although he is young, he is a very good boy and can try his best to take care of his mother."

"At such a young age, she already understands things and knows how to think for the people around her. Giving milk tea to thank the nurse makes me feel so good!"

"What a thoughtful and considerate young man."

In fact, children's good qualities cannot be separated from the careful teaching and guidance of parents in daily life.

Only wise parents can raise excellent children.

02.

There is also this video: There was a middle-aged woman climbing a ladder, her hand just touched the top of the wall when the ladder fell down. This woman only had time to grab the wall with her hand, her whole body was suspended in mid-air, a very dangerous situation.

When the 4-year-old grandson saw this scene, he rushed to hug the ladder without thinking and tried to set it up. But the ladder was so tall and heavy, could a 4-year-old do it? Actually, the boy could not set it up after many tries. But looking at his grandmother, the boy still tried again and again.

"I didn't expect a 4 year old to do that. Look, the ladder is several times bigger than him."

Finally, the 4-year-old boy unleashed strength beyond his years and lifted the ladder. The grandmother quickly hooked her feet to support herself and stabilized herself in time, escaping imminent danger.

Under the video, netizens also left many comments to praise the boy:

"How wonderful";

"I didn't expect a 4 year old to do that. Look, the ladder is several times bigger than him."

"I couldn't hold back my tears when watching this scene, the grandmother must be very proud of her grandchild"...

03.

Nowadays, many parents have one thing in common, which is to love their children in every way possible. But that kind of "self-righteous" love will only make children more dependent on their parents. When children are used to a life of "opening their mouths to ask for food", "serving food and water", they will most likely take all of these things for granted. One day, when parents can no longer satisfy all their requests, children will only complain back, without the consciousness to make an effort to improve themselves.

Parents also need to understand that a gem will not shine without being polished. A person who does not undergo training will hardly become successful. Children who do not have a support system will know that they must learn to run fast and walk steadily to gain a place in society.

The essence of education is not to take care of everything, nor to control children's lives, but to awaken in children the motivation to learn independently.

The essence of education is not to do everything, nor to control the lives of children, but to awaken the motivation to learn independently in children. Children will grow up and parents certainly cannot be with them all their lives. Give them opportunities to grow, inspire them with limitless possibilities.

Parents should be a light for their children, not a crutch. Only then can children use their excellence to expand their own territory. They will cultivate and sow seeds in their territory, and over time, those seeds will become what their children desire most.

Phuong Thuy

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