Riding a motorbike to the first date, he saw her 'looking at him contemptuously' and asked to go home early.

Netizens are buzzing about the situation where a young man rode a motorbike to his first date, the girl just called him on the phone, and after 30 minutes, he hurried home early with the excuse of having an appointment.

Riding a motorbike to the first date, he felt like she 'looked at him with contempt' and then left early - Illustration: TTD

Lack of confidence because of riding a motorbike, on the first date the girl was engrossed in her phone

Specifically, a guy was so shocked by his first date that he posted on a youth group with more than 134,000 members asking for advice.

The guy asked what everyone thought when the guy rode a Wave motorbike on the first date. He was confused when he rode this motorbike to the date while the girl was engrossed in her phone most of the time.

During the 30-minute meeting, the girl occasionally looked at the other person "with a look of contempt", then said goodbye with the excuse of having another appointment. "What does that mean?", the boy asked.

Three days after the article was posted, social media users continue to comment.

Many words of encouragement were sent to the author of the post by "passers-by". Many people believe that the vehicle you drive certainly does not affect the value of a person. "It's because you haven't met the right person yet. Just think that you're not compatible, there will be someone who is compatible", the account Cong Tuan said.

First impressions are very important on a date - Illustration: KIM SANG

Some congratulated, others bluntly said "that's right"

Regarding the above topic, in addition to neutral comments of encouragement and motivation to help men stop being self-conscious, the online community was immediately divided into two extremes.

Many people left comments on the article, sending congratulations when the guy escaped a "mining machine" (implying that the girl was materialistic and looking for a boyfriend to dig for gold - PV).

Tom Tran wrote: "Congratulations on eliminating an unworthy person. You should drive a cheap car, wear cheap clothes, use a cheap phone... to avoid female miners." This comment attracted nearly 1,000 likes, along with many comments agreeing with the thought.

Besides the issue of what vehicle to take, Nguyen Hoang Bach's account thinks that on the first date, the girl just sits there playing with her phone and looks "contemptuously" is enough reason for the guy to leave.

Therefore, Hoang Bach thinks that it is a good thing that the two of them did not go further, because getting to know, dating and loving someone who judges others by appearance will not last long.

On the other end of the spectrum, many accounts explain the girl's attitude in a somewhat understandable way.

According to Tran Cuong, outward appearance is important, that is the truth. First impressions always leave a deep impression. Therefore, Cuong thinks that the first thing to do when meeting someone is to be well-prepared and polite. Even if you are driving a cheap car, it must be clean and attractive.

Dang Tu said that even though a car is a means of transportation, the fact that his girlfriend has a preference for "luxury cars" means that their tastes are different and should be respected.

Thai Trong Nghia account bluntly said: "People criticize me for riding a motorbike, that's why!".

An anonymous user who identified herself as a girl shared that she spent hours putting on makeup and preparing a beautiful dress, but because she met the wrong person (a motorbike), her mood was ruined. "Even though I told myself not to judge others by their appearance, I still can't get rid of the feeling of disappointment," she wrote.

Source: https://tuoitre.vn/di-xe-so-den-buoi-hen-ho-dau-chang-thay-nang-nhin-khinh-khinh-doi-ve-som-2024112723494764.htm